Saturday, December 1, 2007

why must things be this way

warning major rant ahead.if you don't want to read me to complaion then this is a posting you don't want to read. ok i warned you.


now as you all know my mil passed away a few months ago and while i have tried to be patient with my husbans, but the man is driving me nuts, and no im not already there but getting there fast

his latest thing is he comes home from work and looks around the house as if to say oh god shs did nothing again and frankly it pisses me off. because i do work, i work darn hard around here , maybe i can,
t clean way up high and maybe i have alot of issues with that but it realllllly hurts my feelings when he don't even ask me how i am today , just looks around and shakes his head. his excuse my moms house never looked like this (yes it did when she had gotten sicker the last few years of her life) AND its not like my house is dirty. messy yes, dirty NO. we live in a very small house and we have alot of stuff, so we need to get rid of some, yes i realize that but the only one who has made ANY effort to that is me and im sick of it. today i reached my ends whit, i refuse to talk to him until he acts like a human being and not a arrogant jackass. last night when he got home and laid down he just shook his head ad said what did you do today. oh lets see, laundry, dishes, went to the doctors, paid bills went and bought the freaking lights you wanted butthead. and now if they don't have replacment bulbs you don't want it. next time you get the stuff you want, and don't ask me to find them for you.. k now i am done ranting



how are all of you, am worried about some of you have not heard from you, you know who i am talking about girl come visit,


so who is ready for the holidays, and which traditions do you follow? we might put the tree up tomorrow if i can finish what mr butthead wants done

well till later my friends i bid you adeu and may your days be filled with lots of love and fun filled thing to do with your family and friends and remember till the season because jesus is the reason hugs and love

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hmmm, You weren't meaning me were you???? Will come chat mayby tonight. Jean

vicki said...

nope not you jean, someone else i reallly miss alot i hope that all is well with her hugs my friend :)

WilBlg4Yrn said...

*hugs* I am sorry I haven't been around. I'm ok, seriously. I'll try to catch you online for a chat soon!
Maybe you need to just go on strike, maybe after a week of you doing NOTHING he'll appreciate what you do get done.

ikkinlala said...

I'm not even close to ready for the holidays. I'm writing exams this week and will be headed for home next Monday... and then I'll start baking.

CrochetManiacs said...

Hmmmm, could it be me Vicki? I do visit and read your blog, but don't post a lot of the time, sorry bout that. Guess you could call me a blog lurker, LOL!

PeWee said...

Vicki! Your post had me howling in laughter, I know it wasn't meant to be funny, but I guess it was just the laughter of understanding! "Mr Butthead" that's a great pet name for your knight in shining armour! Way to be real!

vicki said...

Vicki! Your post had me howling in laughter, I know it wasn't meant to be funny, but I guess it was just the laughter of understanding! "Mr Butthead" that's a great pet name for your knight in shining armour! Way to be real!

December 10, 2007 4:58 PM




welllll it is true better than calling him a nasty name but i did let him have it, he has decided its better to be nice to me than listen to me gripe. ah men what would we do without them. hugs ya all

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