Sunday, June 6, 2010

sorry its been so long

i am sorry has been so long since i posted so much has happened and just am worn out dealing with it all, this post i guess i need to try and explain, a death of a friendship, it like all friendships started with promise someone new we had something in common crochet, both belonged to the same forum similar interests, so over the years we would email chat on yahoo messnger ect. lately on skypes until i finally realized she didn;t care one little bit about my feelings, the convo was similar to this, i said hi she said hi, same old thing but instead of listening to her bad day that she had had or how things were so bad today i said i was really upset, she said she understood she had been upset too. again all about HER, so then when i tried to explain to her i had to get rid of a huge amount of my stash she had the balls to tell me i should go on the show horders, i said excuse me? that was not nice, she says well i didn;t mean anything by it, im like then why did you say it, she made some excuse and said it again, i said forget it i don;t want to talk about it with you lets talk about something else. she said fine THEN she said have you thought about getting professional help? im like wtf is going on with you, that hurt my feelings, she again says i didn;t mean anything by it, again i said you really hurt my feelings, but does she care. does she stop, no she did not in fact she continued on in the same vein i said i don;t want to talk to you anymore said goodbye and clicked off
i wanted to talk to someone else about it one of my friends and sisters who DO care about me and she popped back in. i again told her i didn;t want to talk to her i was to upset but did she stop even then? oh hell no she kept it up and up and up and finally she did it, she made me so angry and hurt i don't want to be friends with her anymore. it was always about can i do this or that how many times did i get things for her when she said she couldnt afford them then she says i need to be on horders what the heck is wrong with you jean i know you read my blog and even if you answer on here i am not posting it so please don;t and do not keep trying to contact me the friendship(if we ever really had one now i think about how all you did was gripe complain and bitch 95% of the time) is over you don;t need to be concerned about me or worry anymore i am no longer nor care to be your friend . you killed it with your insensitivity and lack of concern for me , and no im not sending you your hooks or yarn i promised you , i would burn them first

sorry the rest of you have to read this but i have reached my limit with this greedy person say some prayers for me so i am not so upset she dont warrent my attention anymore and im using this to purge her out of my life to all of those who DO care thanks and hugs for you all

4 comments:

Cheryl said...

A yarn crafter that collects yarn for use in her hobby and a hoarder are two entirely different things. A hoarder keeps useless things. A yarn crafter's yarns are definitely NOT useless to her or him and are very hard to let go of. If your friend was any friend at all, she would have known this and would not have been so uncaring and hurtful to you. I think you were right in removing yourself from this relationship. Maybe her statement meant nothing to her but it definitely meant something to you and she should have stopped saying it at your first mention of it AND apologized. Obviously, she's so self-centered that she wasn't even listening to you and didn't even care how you were feeling at the time and who needs someone like that?

vicki said...

Thank you Cheryl for explaining how i was feeling and you are sooo right i am so much better off without the person who pretended to be my friend thanks for being so kind vicki

Jenn said...

Already talked to you on the phone about it sort of...but Cheryl is so right. Know of someone else who needs that distinction pounded into his head :). Sorry it took so long to talk...like I told you, not been good here, but you've been in my thoughts and prayers.

vicki said...

i hope things work out jenn did you call LG? or headquarters of BB i hope our chat helped a little i think of you all the time and wished i could help. hugs sweetie

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